Recently, I experienced an energy shift with someone very close to me, and it became a powerful reminder of how energy shapes our connections. I felt called to share this blog to help you recognize these shifts and to better understand light and dark energies—two opposing forces that cannot thrive together.
As you grow, evolve, and aim for more clarity and purpose in your life, something subtle—but powerful—begins to happen:
Not everyone can come with you.
This isn’t about judgment.
It’s about alignment.
The people you surround yourself with influence your mindset, your confidence, your emotional state, and even your ability to progress. Energy is real — and whether we acknowledge it consciously or not, we feel it every day.
The Truth About Low or Dark Energy
Some people don’t intentionally pull you down — but their energy does.
Low or dark energy often shows up as:
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Constant negativity or complaining
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Subtle criticism masked as “concern”
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Lack of accountability
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Resentment toward growth or success
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Discomfort when you change, evolve, or improve
You may notice after spending time with them that you feel:
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Drained instead of inspired
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Doubtful instead of confident
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Heavy instead of clear
That’s not a coincidence.
Jealousy Is Also a Form of Dark Energy
Jealousy isn’t always loud or obvious.
Often, it’s quiet — disguised as sarcasm, distance, or passive support.
Jealous energy doesn’t want you to fail openly —
it simply doesn’t want you to rise beyond what feels comfortable to them.
When someone feels threatened by your growth, they may:
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Minimize your achievements
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Change their behavior toward you
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Withdraw support when you need it most
This kind of energy can be especially damaging because it creates confusion — and self-doubt.
Why Intuition Matters More Than Logic Here
Your intuition notices things before your mind can explain them.
That uneasy feeling.
That sudden emotional drop.
That inner voice telling you, “Something is off.”
Intuition is not irrational — it’s pattern recognition based on experience and energy.
When you ignore it to keep the peace, stay polite, or avoid discomfort, you pay the price later — emotionally, mentally, and sometimes even professionally.
Alignment With People Is Essential for Progress
If you want to grow, you need people who:
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Celebrate your evolution
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Respect your boundaries
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Encourage clarity, not confusion
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Feel inspired by your success, not threatened by it
Aligned people don’t drain you — they expand you.
They don’t require you to shrink, explain, or dim yourself to stay connected.
Choosing the Right People Is an Act of Self-Respect
Letting go of misaligned relationships doesn’t mean you’re cold.
It means you’re conscious.
You’re allowed to:
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Outgrow people
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Change your circle
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Choose peace over familiarity
Progress requires discernment — and sometimes courage.
Final Thought
Not everyone who walks with you is meant to stay.
And not everyone who stays deserves access to your energy.
Trust what you feel.
Protect your alignment.
Choose people who match where you’re going — not where you’ve been.
If you’re navigating growth and finding it difficult to redefine relationships, this is powerful work to explore through coaching. I encourage you to connect with me to explore this further and learn how to use your inner guidance or intuition to help you navigate life better.
Samantha
samanthacervino@gmail.com
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