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  You’re Not Lost — You’re Between Who You Were and Who You’re Becoming “I don’t know who I am anymore.” I wonder how many women have quietly said those words to themselves. Maybe you haven't said them out loud. Maybe instead you've said: I don't know what I want anymore. I feel stuck. I should be happy, but something is missing. I don't know what I'm supposed to do next. I just don't feel like myself. We often describe these feelings as being lost . But what if you're not lost? What if you're simply standing between who you were and who you're becoming? The In-Between Can Be an Uncomfortable Place There are chapters in life when our identity feels very clear. We know our roles. We know our responsibilities. We know where we're going—or at least we think we do. And then something changes. Your children grow up and begin building lives of their own. A marriage or relationship ends. A career that once gave you purpose no longer fulfills you. You mo...

  When the Life You Built No Longer Feels Like the Life You Want There comes a point in many women’s lives when a question begins to surface quietly: Is this still the life I want? Maybe nothing is terribly wrong. You have responsibilities. People who love you. A career you worked hard for. A family you devoted years to. A home, routines, friendships, and a life that you once consciously chose. And yet, something feels different. The life that once fit you doesn’t seem to fit quite the same anymore. That realization can be incredibly uncomfortable because you may also feel guilty for having it. I should be grateful. Other people would love to have what I have. Why can't I just be happy with where I am? But gratitude and the desire for growth can exist at the same time. You can appreciate everything your life has given you and still feel called toward something more. Sometimes You Change Before Your Life Does One of the things I have learned through my own personal growth journey is...